Thank You
Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 3:07 pm
Thank you all for the flower arrangement sent from the 170 Association to my family for my dad's funeral, and a special thanks to the person who brought it to the attention of the group. We were having family visitation at the funeral home when Tina teared up and said, "Del, you need to come look at this". We both broke down right there. When you get something like that from someone(s) you don't expect, it really hits home knowing that people care and are thinking of you.
My dad had been ill since before Christmas, and I've been helping him with chores at home since then, but he did not miss a day of work until 2 weeks before his death. That's when we learned it was cancer, that death was imminent, and that it was to late for any treatments.
We started out being told he had 2-4 months, but with each test and each day, the news got worse. We were told last Monday he had 2 days, 4 tops. He died at 9pm Wednesday, April 14. He handled everything in way very typical of dad. Even the last day, when ask how he feels, he would hold his hands up and rub his fingers together; same answer he always gave,"with my hands". All his kids (me, 2 brothers and 1 sister) were there we he drew his last breath. It was the toughest thing I've ever experienced, but I'm so glad we all had the opportunity, and time, to speak last words.
Thanks again
My dad had been ill since before Christmas, and I've been helping him with chores at home since then, but he did not miss a day of work until 2 weeks before his death. That's when we learned it was cancer, that death was imminent, and that it was to late for any treatments.
We started out being told he had 2-4 months, but with each test and each day, the news got worse. We were told last Monday he had 2 days, 4 tops. He died at 9pm Wednesday, April 14. He handled everything in way very typical of dad. Even the last day, when ask how he feels, he would hold his hands up and rub his fingers together; same answer he always gave,"with my hands". All his kids (me, 2 brothers and 1 sister) were there we he drew his last breath. It was the toughest thing I've ever experienced, but I'm so glad we all had the opportunity, and time, to speak last words.
Thanks again